Comment from kitzell5
this one tried me for £2000 last yr ... told her i was broke and had no money .. she stopped writing lol ... damn .. that's about 5 so i found that i know from dating sites lol
to top ^Comment from ginese2002
Bonjour à tous...
Une bien belle profiteuse...Qui sait jouer avec les sentiments...
A merquer au fer rouge.
to top ^Comment from Dameon
Good deal - have a great life and good luck
to top ^Comment from cl2thdoc
Dameon... Fortunately, this is something Polina and I have ALREADY talked about often. I have patiently explained why this is necessary and have explained I am not saying we won't be together forever... but I DO have responsibilities as well... I have 3 children and ALL I have worked hard to acheive BEFORE we were married should be something I can leave to them... What I earn AFTER we are married is something that will help give her future security. She has understood I take my responsibilities very seriously and has already agreed it is the right thing to do... But I do want to Thank You for your thoughts and concerns as they are VERY GOOD advice to anyone thinking about embarking on this type of relationship... You should think about how YOU would present this to someone you love and want in your life because if you are diligent in providing for the family you once loved deeply and the children that have come from this union, you will also need to head Dameon's advice... It is sound advice and something to think about... Can the woman I love ever replace my children and the love I have for them as well as my responsibilities to them??? Not for me... How about you?? ... Think first... give your heart second...
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Hey Doc - I wish you the best of luck and all the happiness in the world; but I am going to play Devils Advocate for one minute; please do not be offended. I speak to you out of knowledge. Please consider a pre-nup agreement. Protect yourself in all ways.
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Hey Dana, don't you think yesterdays holiday was too short?? I sure do....It rained most of the day on and off til about 9pm here in Fla...I'm just a little hung-over today too...
to top ^Comment from ~Black Panther~
Hey Girl,nice to see you are getting around:) I think bakary had mistaking this site for a dating-site.This is not the first time something like this has happen.I think he knows by now and I do wish him the best.Hey Girl,you might be right!! Nowadays you never know??
to top ^Comment from Dana
Hey...Who is bakary...Ive recently seen that EXACT profile write up somewhere...either on an a dating site or DelphiFAQ...I thought it read like a scammer...
to top ^Comment from J.W.Marks----AKA----Roamer
Hey Doc, truer words were never said here from someone that has endured all that you have.....And I totally agree with the family separation feelings that they will have...Hell My brother and most of my family live up in Pennsylvania and my sister in New mexico and I still go through all of those feelings during the holidays..I'm the oldest of us three and my parents passed away a few years back but I still have aunts and uncles and nieces and nephews etc...And I'm here living in Florida for most of my adult life (I'm 51)....So, I feel that everything you have written just shows that you only have the best of intentions for your future bride...It shows that you are a man of compassion and thatyou aren't self centered, but rather are a person that likes to please!!! So my good man, I wish you the very, very best....Jerome...
to top ^Comment from cl2thdoc
Thanks to the group for the wishes... It is true that now that I have found the person I want in my life that time seems to pass very slowly... Waiting on my government for approval, then waiting on her government for her interview procedure and then finally purchasing the tickets to go back again and help her pack to be ready to come to the USA is something that does make the relationship difficult, but fortunately we still chat daily using Yahoo... so I get to see her and she gets to see me... Geeves, you are certainly going to be invited to Vegas for the wedding… as is everyone that has helped me along the way… (B.P., Forrest, Wayne, and Roamer)… Just remember… “What happens in Vegas… stays in Vegas”… I expect it will be around December after getting the Visas approved and getting her to America… One thing when thinking about an “international relationship” you should know is that expenses do keep adding up... EVEN in the RIGHT relationship... Most girls have never flown and it is a daunting experience for them to travel through an international airport and can be very confusing. Think about all the customs checks we go through on a flight and how each airport routes passengers... Sometimes it can be very confusing even for me and I know I would not want the woman I want in my life to endure this process without help from me... so I decided to travel to Ukraine to get Polina when the process is complete... (more money)... and know that homesickness is something ALL women will go through so taking vacations allowing her to see her family will be an ongoing expense that this relationship will have over the years... As you can see when you start to think of the myriad of future financial obligations a relationship like this will have, finding a girl without these needs would be a better option... I know this going in to this relationship and am willing to afford her needs to feel more comfortable in my country yet continue to keep her “roots” tied to her country... This is something you must evaluate when deciding on a long-term relationship with someone from a different country. I know about these things because my brother has been married for 10 years to a woman from South America and I have seen the problems with cultural differences as well as how she becomes depressed when she is away from her family for long periods of time... PLEASE DO NOT think a relationship with a foreign woman will be easy... Yes, they are beautiful and have values regarding a family I truly was looking for... but so are women from just about every country... You just have to look and be patient... I hope this helps as someone thinks about long term costs and consequences of a relationship like this... For me (and ONLY for me, now)... This was the right thing to do... but I am not going into this unknowingly... And my heart is definitely taken, so I am willing to endure much more than I would with an American woman... I hope everyone has a great week… I will continue to read and offer my experience with posts as I have in the past… Everyone, please know how much you have helped along the way… Mistakes I would have made were “curbed” as I listened to what was written over the last 15 months… THANKS!!! And Geeves, I NEVER ASSUME anything!!! he he he...
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Hey Doc,glad to hear that you had a great time and everything went well.I would assume that you are going to invite all of us to your wedding.((:
And don't analyze "assume"
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Hey Doc, Best wishes for you both!!I hope that your Polina will be with you soon...May time fly by quickly during her absence...
to top ^Comment from ~Black Panther~
Doc,first I would like to congratulate you with your engagement to your future wife Polina.I wish you two the best and happiness. I just finish reading you comment Doc.My "God" unbelieveable!! I think some of us were sort of aware of this and for myself,I kind of knew,but didn't have the whole story.Now I do and I like to thank you for that:) I hope everyone that comes to this site,takes the time to read your comment Doc.Very well said and I don't think anyone will disagree at what you wrote.Thanks!!
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Hello BP... I had a wonderful time... and your comment about being careful is a very good comment!! Most do not know, but there are MANY ways women scam men for money and things... Here has been my experience in the 11 trips to Ukraine I have made... Some women give false information about themselves (name, age, and job)... They do this for many reasons but the primary one is so they can have multiple profiles open and chat on many ladies names because they receive income from the agency for the amount of income they can generate for the agency. They are paid on a percentage basis... If you choose to purchase perfume as a gift through a web site dating agency, you should know that some women refuse the gift but only accept half the money instead, then Thank You profusely for the gift... or they tell you the perfume you bought was not their favorite and could you send something else... Some women hint at gifts they would like to receive on a visit because they know they can later sell the gift and split the money with the agency. The agency encourages this because it increases what they earn... This is another form of deception because the girl is NOT truly interested in a relationship, but only in what she can acquire to later sell. Some women speak MUCH BETTER English than they first let you know about. They do this in hopes the men will pay an unneeded interpreter for services because the girl and interpreter have made an agreement to split the unnecessary interpreting fee... or even worse, she hopes the man will give her money for unneeded English lessons... I have made this mistake twice... But like everyone who learns from mistakes, I have realized what the girls objectives are... Very FEW women are truly interested in a relationship because moving presents them with many hardships and leaving their family, country, and the only life they have ever known is something most are NOT willing to do... Most men who visit (and it is truly a very small percentage of men who will go to the expense of visiting) are unaware of some of these things and deceived. Girls over their are very aware of the "sexual tourist" and this is how they justify treating someone poorly and deceptively... PLEASE UNDERSTAND that NOT ALL the women are like this, but most that are younger than 25 years old do have these tendencies. They can make much more money scamming visiting men, and writing and chatting on other profiles than they could ever make in the society they find themselves living in... So my advice is this... If you want to visit someone, please go into the visit with your eyes wide open and keep your emotions close to your chest because it may come back to cause you a lot of money!! Oh, and if you have an interpreter that does not translate what you say correctly and you find yourself trying to be a gentleman and asceed to the girls wishes (like multiple shopping trips) instead of spending time learning about each other, then you need a new interpreter...or a different girl... I hope my experiences might help someone else... I have been fortunate in finding Polina, but I have had a lot of poor experiences and spent much money in my pursuit... Be aware of this very true fact... It will DEFINITELY be cheaper for you to find someone from your own country and not someone from Russia or Ukraine...
to top ^Comment from LG
Hey guys, I just got back from Y-O a couple weeks ago because I can not stay away from my new fiancee.
I met her after much frustration dealing with legitimate scam free women that were just out for a good time on someone else's dime. The visa process is started but will take six months or so. Yes, I see many guys are getting scammed by young Russian teenage men setting up profiles in the Internet cafe's. I see it happening there right before my eyes. Now money is flowing better in Y-O and everyone has computers, the girls in the scam proof agency's are even riding men for vacations and money and dumping them when they show up for the second visit. Unless you go there in person and get references from the girls friends and family and meet them in person, you are wasting your time! There is no easy way to find love with these girls they are all scammers. Go there and meet a waitress or put an add in the local paper and meet the girl with a job that has never
been to an agency or dating site. Good luck, LG
to top ^Comment from ~Black Panther~
Hey Doc "Welcome" back!! I hope everything went smoooooth! for you while you where their.I wish you the best for you and Polina:) Hey Doc while you were their,you didn't happen to bump into any scammers? or come up with any information you might want to share with us...Hmmm! Talk to you later.
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Hey bro,Whats up!! bakary my man,this is not a dating-site.This is a site for scammers.These photo's are placed here for one reason.To show everyone that they are been used for criminal activity.Let me say bro,you have a very good description of yourself,but let me give you a little advice.You are been to honest and to personal when writting about yourself and theirs nothing wrong with that bro:)But when you write something like that on one of these so called dating-site,you are looking for trouble and trouble will find you very easy,you know what I mean? You will be a easy target for these criminals.Let me state the facts,#1)Most of the profiles listed on these dating sites are scammers #2)Some of the profiles are place their by the agencies themself #3)Chances of founding a honest girl,well the percentage of that is pretty low.So put these fact into consideration when you are searching for someone on the net.One more thing bro,never give out your email address right away.That's not a good thing!! Lie a bit when writting about yourself,"God forbid" but you want to play it safe.And bakary,Good luck in your search and I really hope you find what you are looking for:))
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Bakary,
Please understand the purpose of this site... It is NOT to find a wife... It is to report someone who has no values and thinks deceiving men for money is the best thing they can offer... Mostly it is ONLY MEN who read this site, so unless you are gay and looking for that special man... post your needs elsewhere!! As for everyone else... My visit with Polina was very good and we had a great 2 weeks... I have all her translated documents so now we start the process to bring her to America!! I am very excited about this but HATE everything through the govenment takes so long... I hope everyone had a great 2 weeks... and for all of you that are Yankees... and Rebels... Happy Independence Day!!! Have a GREAT 4th!!!
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i am a man age of 22 year in africa , in the gambia.
About me:Bakary
I am that easy going type,open minded and a good listiner .I laugh a lot and try to make people around me all the time happy.My hobbies are too many but to mentioned a few; sports,watchingmovies, going for playing with kids, listening to all types of music), . My eating habits: just about anything. I dont have any kids, I dont smoke.I always make sure to share the little that I have with someone and Im also satisfied with whatever I 've.Here are a few things : . . I am not the type of man that builds himself up by knocking others down. I am the best of both. . I am deeper than that. I am smarter and more original. i am caring, loving and GOD FEARING. If you want a man that knows how to treat a woman and respect him then read on.i am a caring and nice man.I AM a romantic man, the guy that makes everyone laugh, the man you CAN introduce to your parents. I love the idea of loving someone and giving them all that I have to give. I am the man that can make you feel like you are the only woman in the room.mostly importantly i want to get married to a caring, down to earth, romantic, God fearing hubby soonest. the main thing is life that will make me happy is to have a loving, passionately hubby and a happy family as well. but trust and massive care is mandatory in every relationship and i really want that.and if you want add me to ur msn address my msn is bakarymssanneh@hotmail.com or yahoomessanger is bakary_sanneh6
Who I'd like to meet:
What I am looking for is someone who will get to know me ,who will love me forever and be there for me ,who is willing to merge his soul with mine to result in what is called fate then later merge his heart with mine and that will be marriage. Now don't get me wrong I'm a very fun person and can make fun of any situation. a man who has all the qualities a woman would love to see in a man, A man who is not in for any games, i've been hurt so many times and i dont wanna go through that
to top ^Comment from ~Black Panther~
One more thing Roamer,you have yourself a wonderful weekend:) Talk to you next week,buddy!!
to top ^Comment from ~Black Panther~
Hey Roamer read comments on #2612,Talk to you later buddy:)
to top ^Comment from Wayne
Nice rack, legs, and hair. I wonder who she really is.
to top ^Comment from Roamer
Just dial 69-69-69-6969
to top ^Comment from v a g
aaahhhh a blonde again! he guys can i get her number??
to top ^Comment from Roamer
I think that you should "Stow" her away.....You never know what next winter will bring....Could make a nice foot or ear warmer...Any large fruit cellar should keep her from spoiling...
to top ^Comment from Forrest
Throw this one back, Geeves. Certainly not a keeper.
to top ^Comment from Geeves
She looks more like a two bit hooker.I did put # 2596 as a related report but I guess that doesn't matter anymore.
to top ^Comment from Roamer Checked
Natalya Grigoreva----Is a professional dance competitor.......
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