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# Details: Hello my Tasty-Honey! How are you? I have interesting news today. I
  went today with my mammy to the mayoralty and to me have told, that
  all will be made out in short term. I very much worry concerning it. I
  completely trust you and in spite of the fact that I am spoken by my
  relatives. Tickets to me will order next week. I shall be capable to
  be at you on a visit 30 days then I should return to Russia. For this
  time we can discuss much and if we shall want to marry in the future
  we also shall discuss it. I shall be capable to arrive to you by
  November,20. I hope, what you will have a good weather at this time? I
  also have not a big request. Very much I hope, that you will help me!
  Please send me 427 euro. As at us payment is accepted or in dollars,
  also it is possible in euro. It is necessary, that in brief term to
  legalize my papers plus medical insurance. I shall free-of-charge
  receive tickets with the help of mine of the mammy! You should inform
  me the name of the airport where I shall order tickets. I give to you
  the address of branch western union as it is the fastest way of
  transfer of money.
  Western Union in Cheboksary: Bank: " Menatep SPB " The address:
  Russia, Cheboksary, Prospekt Lenina, 6a. Also my data will be
  necessary for you. My full data: Irina Tselischeva. My address:
  428000. Russia. The Chuvash republic. City: Cheboksary. Street:
  Nikolaeva. Home: 7. An apartment: 45. I want that you will show me
  your native land, a places where you like to go for a walk and where
  you like to spend a more of your time, also I want to get acquainted
  with your relatives and closest friends so much! I want to be with you
  very much, so much my love! I very much hope for your help. I very
  much wait for ours with you of a meeting! Very much I wait for the
  letter. Yours Irina.
  
  2d report:
  First name: Irina
  Last name: Tselischeva
  Country: Chuvashya
  City: Cheboksary
  Email: irka22@inbox.ru
  Details: Hi my Love! Today I was slightly Is injured. My has told the mums,
  that she will not help me to pay for the passport, insurance and visa.
  She has told, that a payment for these things we should think out
  together. She has told, that when we shall pay it and I shall receive
  the passport and visa, she will care of my tickets to you. She has
  told, that the tickets very expensive and consequently they with them
  will help us. Honey, the agent of travel has told, that contract
  includes the price of the passport, insurance, visa and services of
  agency. It is possible to pay for the tickets money after I shall have
  all documents for travel. The price of all documents and works of a
  travel company, 450 $ it about 387 euro. They want so much money
  because now very difficultly to receive the visa in your country and
  them it is necessary to do for this purpose many efforts. Honey,
  lovely I have no many money and I have told them, that while I shall
  talk to you I shall do this contract. Favourite, I today was injured
  by all these things. I did attempts to borrow this money at some
  people, but nobody could to me help. I hope, that you can help me this
  money and that it is not for you a problem. I very much want to feel
  you beside. Favourite, I wait with impatience your answer and I hope,
  that at us the Honey together will be speed. I shall arrive to you in
  the November for two weeks as I will have holiday from work! We all
  shall discuss and consider our plans for the future! If such money it
  is not so difficult for you and it does not become a barrier to us,
  tomorrow I shall go in a travel company and to conclude the contract.
  Please do not forget to write to me the correct full data! I shall
  find out in what airport of your city I shall be capable to fly! You
  may transfer me money through systems of monetary transfers (western
  union) or (money gram). I to write to you the full data which will be
  necessary for you by transfer of money through these systems of money
  transfers! My full name: Irina Tselischeva. My home address:
  Chuvashia, Cheboksary city, Lomonosova street 3-35, Russia. You may
  transfer me money in any branch western union or money gram to Russia.
  I shall be capable to receive money from myself in city. I very much
  hope for your help. I shall wait very much and to hope, that we shall
  be together. I love you. Your Irina.
  
  
  
  P.S. Western union addresses and money gram where you may transfer me
  money also! 1) Money gram: SVIAZ BANK; 44, YAROSLAVSKAYA STR.
  CHEBOKSARY, RUSSIAN FEDERATION 428000. 2) Western union:
  Vneshtorgbank; SVERCHKOVA, 15 CHEBOKSARY, RUSSIAN FEDERATION 428009.
  
  Reported by: S. Esme
  
  3d report:
  
  First name: Julia
  Last name: Tsypukova
  Country: Russia
  City: Cheboksary
  Email: jults78@list.ru
  Address: Ivanova street 15-128
  
  Details: Dear, today bad weather, all time it is raining.
  But I have all the same come in internet cafe.
  I decided to write to you a pair of words that you did not think, that I forget you.
  Simply I now had a free time and I with pleasure write you this letter.
  In general to write to you letters and to read yours it very pleasantly.
  I receive from it pleasure.
  Probably we may meet and consequently at me very good mood!!!
  At you now morning.
  I think, that when you receive my letter you in the morning will smile.
  Well please smile.:-))
  Ur!!!!, have smiled.:-))
  I wish you very good day and more happiness.
  I want that you today all time smiled.
  That today for you sang birds and that today at you all your affairs turned out very well!!!
  You should understand that I not always have a free time to write to you letters. I try to write to a is more often.
  Yours Julia.
  
  
  
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  Subject: Hi Dear
   Date: Fri, 18 Nov 2005 1:58:46 AM EST
   From: Julia
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  Hi dear Sjoerd, You know we so are poorly familiar with each other
  but I have already get used to you. It is very pleasant for me to read
  your letters. I would be glad if you send me a lot of the photos. They
  should be small on the size, or my computer will not be able to
  receive a mail. I want to learn through these photos you and your way
  of life. I search my beloved for the man on the Internet because there
  I can find the man to which I really dear and necessary, the man which
  will love me as the happiness and hope for the happiness, the man
  which will want to meet the old age with me. The majority of men in
  Russia are egoists and do not respect women. They love only themselves
  and alcohol. I want the only,who - will love me and respect. That i
  would be wanted not only as the beautiful woman, and as the beloved. I
  want that my man likes and wants only me, that when I go to bed of
  mine my beloved is waiting for me there. He would embrace me and we
  would fall asleep in embraces. When i wake up he kisses me and say
  "Good morning my dear, i love you." It is my dream I want it and i
  aspire to it. I want such a man which would like to be only mine. That
  we spend all free time with him. I would like such a man to which I
  will trust and would not be afraid that he will leave to other woman.
  I think that if the man and the woman have concluded a matrimony in
  church that they should be true the promises before the god and
  people. In internet I have chosen you because I think that you are a
  man of this kind. It is difficult to explain it, this female sixth
  feeling or an internal voice is possible. Probably it is destiny or
  the god wants that we have got acquainted. In our life everytning
  occurs not casually. If it has taken place it means that it was
  predicted by destiny. There is a legend that once God created the
  creature, but one day that creature decided that it was stronger,
  better and wiser. For such fault God divided it into two parts into
  woman and man. Since that time people looking for their own halves
  which belong only them. I believe in my happy destiny and I believe
  that I will find happiness and I will have family. Otherwise life is
  meaningless. It is very difficult to be the lonely person. At such
  person all life turns in a small monotonous way of life. You spend all
  time for work and do not aspire home. Because nobody waits for you
  there in the house . In the morning you hurry for work because it is
  boringly at home. Nobody waits for you at hime and after work you sit
  to watch TV till the late evening. Then you go to sleep and so it
  Repeats day after day. Sometimes you try to change something in the
  life but not always it turns out. With each year of loneliness it is
  more difficult and more difficult to find a loved person. Slowly you
  you turn into the homebody or hardworking person. And already anybody
  is not necessary for you. With each year of loneliness you become the
  self-sufficient person and the egoist. I do not want to turn into such
  person. I want to have love, fun, pleasure and happiness. I want to
  love and to be loved. I want to know you better. It seems to me that
  we are similar with you. Both of us aspire to become happy. Both of us
  use the best efforts to find the love and to find composure with the
  loved person. Probably we can have serious relations, but for the
  present it is early to speak about it. I need in my husband not only
  as in the partner in sex, but also as whom i can talk to as the close
  friend, the partner of my life, and to the beloved person. For this
  reason tell me about your life. Tell me as your usual day passes.
  Please tell to me more in detail about a place, where you live. I want
  to find the man which would love me as the woman, as the person, but
  not as a beautiful doll, Which he can show everyone and be proud of
  it. I am the woman who wants to love and be loved, and I do not want
  to be played with. The wife should be proud of the husband. Wise wives
  should tell to the husbands the most confidential and personal ideas
  and nothing to hide from the husband. I think, that the husband should
  support the woman in it, respect her, not criticize her in the
  companies of the friends thus keeping self-respect of the favourite
  wife. I think that the good husband always pays a compliment to the
  wife on the occasion of the new dress, a new hairdress, will be
  grateful for dinner which she cooks for him. And it is necessary to
  kiss her when she leaves for work. I think, that home life should
  consist of mutual respect and understanding between the husband and
  the wife. Both the husband and the wife are resposible for happy life
  of the family. I think, that the good wife should create a cosiness in
  the house with maximal tenderness and beauty, care and fidelity. I
  shall respect, I shall like and I shall caress my future husband.
  Probably you have already got tired to read my letter. well, let me
  finish the letter just for now, I should go. I shall wait your letter
  very much. I wish you successful day. Your Julia.
  
  P.S. I shall write the following letter as soon as possible.
  If I have not answered some your questions I shall try to respond on them in the following letter.
  
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  Subject: For you
   Date: Sat, 19 Nov 2005 5:52:57 AM EST
   From: Julia
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  I am very glad that you do not forget me!!!
  Now I have gone to tell not for a long time to you that I think of you, but unfortunately I now
  have not enough time to answer all your questions and to write to you longer letter. As soon as
  next time I shall leave on a line all I shall tell.
  I ask you that you have sent me of more photo.
  I shall be glad them to see. It is very pleasant for me to see you, you are very beautiful.
  I to send you pictures of the childhood. I hope that you love it.
  Julia.
  
  
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   Date: Mon, 21 Nov 2005 4:23:15 AM EST
   From: Julia
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  hi my dear friend ,
  Today mum has made fried eggs and a glass of coffee for breakfast for me.
  Today I am not in good mood. Something like melancholy.
  I lack love and caress of loving man very much.
  I feel loneliness and that is why i am very sad.
  I try to change something in my life, but it turns nothing out for me.
  Because of my unsuccessful private life I have a depression every day.
  I want to love and to be loved.
  I want somebody who love me very much has embraced me and has kissed me.
  I am so sad now. Simply it is very sad for me just now.
  When you know that nobody waits for you and to live begins very difficultly.
  The blue sky turns to gloomy clouds, singing of birds irritates you, cheerful faces of people
  cause something like envy.
  Why not I? Why not, why am I not smiling and have fun now?
  Only your letters force me to smile. I feel support in your letters.
  I can tell you all that I can not tell others.
  I have not got used to show the emotions.
  I tell you about my asdness and it become easier for me. As though you take a part of my bad
  mood and pull out it from my soul.
  It becomes easier. Thank you that you exist.
  I got used to you very much. It frightens me a little.
  It seems to me that you are very good and decent man.
  I do not understand why women of your country do not see what a good man you are.
  They are silly women. They do not see that they lose.
  I think that i am lucky that I have got acquainted with you.
  I think that you would be very good husband and father.
  The only thing i regret about very much that I have not got acquainted with you earlier.
  I did not know that through the Internet it is possible to get acquainted with men.
  And I did not know that in the Internet there are such good men as you are.
  My dear honey unfortunately I SHOULD GO. I finish the letter.
  My dear friend I shall be very glad to see your letter.
  Please write to me.
  Your letters give me additional energy which helps me to live.
  I wish you successful day and that at you all was good today and always.
  I shall wait your letter,
  Your Julia.
  
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   Date: Tue, 22 Nov 2005 12:55:21 AM EST
   From: Julia
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  Hi my dear,
  It is very pleasant for me, that we with you continue our dialogue.
  It seems to me, that I know you as myself.
  My dear excuse, but I have many questions:
  I believe this part on marriage; do you?
  The common faith of spouses who are members of the body of Christ is an essential condition for
  truly Christian and church marriage.
  It is only the family that has one faith that can become «the church in the house» (Rom. 16:5;
  Phil. 1:2), in which husband and wife together with their children grow in spiritual perfection
  and knowledge of God.
  The lack of like-mindedness presents a serious threat to the integrity of a matrimonial union.
  That is why the Church considers it her duty to urge the faithful to marry «only in the Lord» (1
  Cor. 7:39), that to marry only those who share their Christian convictions.
  
  do you believe this? I do.
  
  While appreciating the social role of women and welcoming their political, cultural and social
  equality with men, the Church opposes the tendency to diminish the role of woman as wife and
  mother. The fundamental equality of the sexes does not annihilate the natural distinction
  between them, nor does it imply the identity of their callings in family and society. In
  particular, the Church cannot misconstrue the words of St. Paul about the special responsibility
  of husband who is called to be «the head of the wife» who loves her as Christ loves His Church,
  and about the calling of the wife to obey the husband as the Church obeys Christ (Eph. 5:22-23;
  Col. 3:18). These words are not of course about the despotism of husband or the slavery of wife,
  but about supremacy in responsibility, care and love. It should not be forgotten either that all
  Christians are called to «submit themselves to one another in the fear of God» (Eph. 5:21).
  Therefore, «neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the
  Lord. For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of
  God» (1 Cor. 11:11-12). I believe this also.
  
  Tell me of your spirituality, in detail please. What does salvation mean to you?
  Why do you believe you are going to heaven? Do you read the Holy Bible, how often?
  How much do you pray? Would you read the Holy Bible with me every day?
  Would you pray with me?
  Excuse, that I ask there much. I understand your belief differ from Russian, but all the same
  at us the general bases of morals slightly.
  You do not think, that I am crazy about religion! No. Simply to me interestingly your attitude.
  Observance of these canons in our life is not necessary. It is simply ideal variant.
  In life all is much more difficult and ideal observance of these canons impossible. I simply
  speak, that I agree with these canons.
  If you not so the believing person do not hesitate of it to tell. It will not change my good
  relation to you.
  In the sacred bible interesting things which are written are simply necessary in life.
  There many the moral moments without which the mankind will sink in criminality and immorality.
  I earlier not so trusted in the god, but in due course understand, that the religion is
  necessary for mankind.
  Unimportantly what it is religion: Moslems or Christians or the Buddhism......,
  without religion the society may not exist.
  Us from the childhood teach precepts do not kill, do not steal, do not lie....
  And so on. If to this did not teach for us probably it would be very simple to take and that
  that to steal or kill! You so too think?
  Recollect the pagan. The pagan considers, that having killed persons or whom that still he
  receives blessing from the god or gods. I that that have taken a great interest.
  ok, Probably you already have got tired of mine a question.:-)
  
  My Mather to transfer you Hello!
  In the beginning she not so seriously concerned to you and to our correspondence, but now mum
  consider, that at you very serious intentions. Mum very much trust you and consider, that you
  will give me happiness!!!
  I should finish the letter. I think of you always. Remember it.
  like you, Yours Julia.
  
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  Date: Wed, 23 Nov 2005 4:08:51 AM EST
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  Hi my dear Sjoerd!!!!!! Lovely, and as your native people will concern to to
  that I shall arrive to you? sweet, I would not like to create for you
  any inconveniences. sweet, today I visited the agent travels. He has
  told, that their firm can prepare for me travel. It will require
  approximately about 2,5 weeks. They will be to prepare for me the
  passport and insurance, then they will be to order for me the visa.
  The agent has told, that behind the visa I owe to reach in Moscow in
  your embassy. He has told, that now uneasy to receive the visa of the
  tourist to you, but they can care of, that I could receive the visa
  without problems. Then, a little sweete will be required to reserve
  for me the ticket and to develop more convenient route of the plane. I
  have told them, that probably I shall conclude with them the contract
  for my travel, toon. Tomorrow I shall learn from them full details
  rather cost and necessary documents. Today I had small free sweete
  from my work also had not sweete in detail all to learn. So i shall
  talk to my mather to ask them, to help to me to pay this contract. I
  very much hope, mine lovely, that at us all will be good also we can
  be speed beside with each other. I very much frequently I think of it.
  I have various imaginations concerning us of a two. and you, mine
  favourite? Dear, I wanted to learn from you, if cost travels will be
  large, whether you can help me with some by part it? My mather cannot
  be named as the rich people, and I not wanted very strongly to worry
  their finance. I hope, that some money for our meeting will not be a
  problem for you. But if yours financial position now heavy, I shall
  try itself to find any the decision for this purpose. Please write me
  about your dreams. If we have met the first thing I shall make when I
  shall see you I shall embrace you and kiss you!!! I feel to you
  something unusual, unusual feeling. I have never had such feeling. I
  think of you every minute, I want to see you, I can not sleep, eat...
  In my head ideas only about you. My heart is broken off from idea that
  we are now not together!!!! It seems to me that you are the angel gone
  down with heavens and inhaling in me forces to life . You are as a
  spark which fired in my soul, fire of like!!! Without you I did not
  live, I existed. Earlier I did not have pleasure in life, I simply
  lived the life. You, when you have appeared,my life has changed!!! I
  began to think of that the god has given me hope fortunately!!! The
  god has given me chance to be happy and I am not going to miss this
  chance. I am grateful to destiny that we have got acquainted. my like
  you are my unique man!!! I do not understand why such good man is
  still lonely?!!! Women in your country are silly. They do not see
  invaluable riches of your kind soul. I am very lucky that I have got
  acquainted with you. I also shall thank people which have thought up
  this Internet. Due to this internet we have got acquainted with you. I
  do want to meet you. I will find out what is necessary for me for our
  meeting. My feelings and words in relation to you always were fair and
  sincere. I never told lies to you and I shall never tell lies to you.
  I absolutely trust you. I know that such a man as you are never will
  deceive a woman. I already present myself as I have arrived to you, at
  the airport I look around for you. When I shall see you I shall run up
  to you and I shall embrace you!!! It will be the happiest day in my
  life. My mum and my best girlfriends are very glad for us. They wish
  that our relations develope and nothing prevente us to be happy. I
  very much want to get acquainted and to make friends with your
  relatives and friends. I do not want to hide the feelings to you. I
  want all the world know how you are necessary for me. I very much
  regret that now between us thousand kilometers of water and a land.
  And our dialogue is limited only to letters. But I believe that the
  day will come when we shall meet. This fine day we shall talk about
  all!!! I every day learn the English language and that is why we will
  not have problems in dialogue. Therefore do not worry we shall
  understand each other very well. Unfortunately I should finish the
  letter. If you do not want to be with me and to love me then be to me
  the friend. I hope I have not frightened you this letter. Simply I
  have written today that that I feel. Probably it shocks you a little.
  Probably my words unexpected for you. But accept these words as a a
  reality also think I am necessary for you as loving woman or not. I
  with impatience wait news from you. I wish you all the most good and
  successful day to you.
  
  Your Julia.
  p.s.Not be shocked, think and tell me that that you think.
  If you do not want to have me as loving the woman we can meet as friends.
  
  
  ">Subject: From Julia
   Date: Thu, 10 Nov 2005 2:02:07 AM EST
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  Hello!!!!
  
  My name is Julia. I saw your structure on www.chatgirl.nl. my age of
  27 years. I would like to get acquainted with you. If you to answer me
  my letter I can send you the my photo. Mine e-mail: jults78@list.ru
  
  Please write to me. I shall wait for your letter.
  
  Yours faithfully, Julia.
  
  
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  Date: Wed, 16 Nov 2005 2:46:55 AM EST
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  Hi dear friend , How are you there???????????? I very often go on
  business trips in other branches of our company Lukoil. Therefore I am
  not in city very frequently. But now I have asked not to send Me on
  business trips. It is very difficultly to go somewhere constantly. I
  have very interesting work. Basically, while I a low meneger, And I
  have no very impotant attitude to global projects. Though in
  collective Discussion of projects I participate. My work consists in
  calculation Various parameters, their comparison with base and finding
  out the reasons rejections if those are present. A lot of figures,
  conclusions and reports. It is a lot of responsibility. I want to
  promote on work, But I still have not enough experience for this
  purpose. Ok, what more can I tell you? I have a lot of girlfriends.
  Beginning since kindergarten, then at school, then at university and
  on work. Everywhere I found new girlfriends. As a result now I have a
  lot of friends. But of course friends of the childhood are the most
  "expensive" dearest and favourite:) My favourite girlfriends are Elena
  and Karina. I have told them about you. I hope you do not take
  offence? They are my best girlfriends. And I do not have secrets from
  them. We are friends since the 2nd class. At that time we have moved
  to live to Russia. Unfortunately friends from the childhood have
  remained in Ukraine and I see them very seldom. Very sadly that all my
  relatives have remained in Ukraine. It is very difficult to live when
  there are no native people near you. After death of my father we
  srayed with my mother alone. There are no more relatives in Russia
  except mother.:-(( Elena and Karina have become interested in you very
  much. They speak that I should continue correspondence With you. They
  liked you very much!!! One of my best girlfriends lives in the other
  city. I do not meet her very often. well, my ideas come to an end. And
  what to tell? My favourite meal is the fried chicken, meat with potato
  and pelmenis. Favourite kind of sports are track and field athletics,
  tennis and ski. My favourite color pink, the favourite cinema Ocean's
  11, favourite actor Bred Pitt, Favourite ice-cream vanilla, the
  favourite singer the Madonna, favourite song Frozen, Favourite flowers
  tulips and red carnations, Favourite drink Jin-Tonic but I drink very
  rare, favourite perfum " the Spring lily of the valley ", My favourite
  season is spring. At this time evrything blossoms. Spring is time of
  love. Now I am in the internet cafe and I have to go home. Internet
  cafe is far from my work at a distance of 1 hours and from my house
  also more minuts. Unfortunately it is not convenient very much. But I
  shall try to go in Internet cafe as it is possible to write letters to
  you more often. I shall do it because it is very important for me. My
  dream is to have loving husband. I want to have happy family and
  consequently I have decided to search for the worthy man in internet.
  It is very difficult to live alone when you wake up in empty bed. It
  is very difficultly when in the morning your beloved does not embrace
  you. It is very difficult to live when there is no man with you which
  support calm you in difficult minutes of your life. I want him awake
  me with a sweet kiss in the morning. I want to be loved. I think that
  you understand me because you are lonely too. Write, I shall wait your
  letter very much. Your friend Julia.
  
  
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  Date: Thu, 17 Nov 2005 4:11:03 AM EST
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  Dear, today bad weather, all time it is raining.
  But I have all the same come in internet cafe.
  I decided to write to you a pair of words that you did not think, that I forget you.
  Simply I now had a free time and I with pleasure write you this letter.
  In general to write to you letters and to read yours it very pleasantly.
  I receive from it pleasure.
  Probably we may meet and consequently at me very good mood!!!
  At you now morning.
  I think, that when you receive my letter you in the morning will smile.
  Well please smile.:-))
  Ur!!!!, have smiled.:-))
  I wish you very good day and more happiness.
  I want that you today all time smiled.
  That today for you sang birds and that today at you all your affairs turned out very well!!!
  You should understand that I not always have a free time to write to you letters. I try to write to a is more often.
  Yours Julia.
  
  
  
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  Subject: Hi Dear
   Date: Fri, 18 Nov 2005 1:58:46 AM EST
   From: Julia
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  Hi dear Sjoerd, You know we so are poorly familiar with each other
  but I have already get used to you. It is very pleasant for me to read
  your letters. I would be glad if you send me a lot of the photos. They
  should be small on the size, or my computer will not be able to
  receive a mail. I want to learn through these photos you and your way
  of life. I search my beloved for the man on the Internet because there
  I can find the man to which I really dear and necessary, the man which
  will love me as the happiness and hope for the happiness, the man
  which will want to meet the old age with me. The majority of men in
  Russia are egoists and do not respect women. They love only themselves
  and alcohol. I want the only,who - will love me and respect. That i
  would be wanted not only as the beautiful woman, and as the beloved. I
  want that my man likes and wants only me, that when I go to bed of
  mine my beloved is waiting for me there. He would embrace me and we
  would fall asleep in embraces. When i wake up he kisses me and say
  "Good morning my dear, i love you." It is my dream I want it and i
  aspire to it. I want such a man which would like to be only mine. That
  we spend all free time with him. I would like such a man to which I
  will trust and would not be afraid that he will leave to other woman.
  I think that if the man and the woman have concluded a matrimony in
  church that they should be true the promises before the god and
  people. In internet I have chosen you because I think that you are a
  man of this kind. It is difficult to explain it, this female sixth
  feeling or an internal voice is possible. Probably it is destiny or
  the god wants that we have got acquainted. In our life everytning
  occurs not casually. If it has taken place it means that it was
  predicted by destiny. There is a legend that once God created the
  creature, but one day that creature decided that it was stronger,
  better and wiser. For such fault God divided it into two parts into
  woman and man. Since that time people looking for their own halves
  which belong only them. I believe in my happy destiny and I believe
  that I will find happiness and I will have family. Otherwise life is
  meaningless. It is very difficult to be the lonely person. At such
  person all life turns in a small monotonous way of life. You spend all
  time for work and do not aspire home. Because nobody waits for you
  there in the house . In the morning you hurry for work because it is
  boringly at home. Nobody waits for you at hime and after work you sit
  to watch TV till the late evening. Then you go to sleep and so it
  Repeats day after day. Sometimes you try to change something in the
  life but not always it turns out. With each year of loneliness it is
  more difficult and more difficult to find a loved person. Slowly you
  you turn into the homebody or hardworking person. And already anybody
  is not necessary for you. With each year of loneliness you become the
  self-sufficient person and the egoist. I do not want to turn into such
  person. I want to have love, fun, pleasure and happiness. I want to
  love and to be loved. I want to know you better. It seems to me that
  we are similar with you. Both of us aspire to become happy. Both of us
  use the best efforts to find the love and to find composure with the
  loved person. Probably we can have serious relations, but for the
  present it is early to speak about it. I need in my husband not only
  as in the partner in sex, but also as whom i can talk to as the close
  friend, the partner of my life, and to the beloved person. For this
  reason tell me about your life. Tell me as your usual day passes.
  Please tell to me more in detail about a place, where you live. I want
  to find the man which would love me as the woman, as the person, but
  not as a beautiful doll, Which he can show everyone and be proud of
  it. I am the woman who wants to love and be loved, and I do not want
  to be played with. The wife should be proud of the husband. Wise wives
  should tell to the husbands the most confidential and personal ideas
  and nothing to hide from the husband. I think, that the husband should
  support the woman in it, respect her, not criticize her in the
  companies of the friends thus keeping self-respect of the favourite
  wife. I think that the good husband always pays a compliment to the
  wife on the occasion of the new dress, a new hairdress, will be
  grateful for dinner which she cooks for him. And it is necessary to
  kiss her when she leaves for work. I think, that home life should
  consist of mutual respect and understanding between the husband and
  the wife. Both the husband and the wife are resposible for happy life
  of the family. I think, that the good wife should create a cosiness in
  the house with maximal tenderness and beauty, care and fidelity. I
  shall respect, I shall like and I shall caress my future husband.
  Probably you have already got tired to read my letter. well, let me
  finish the letter just for now, I should go. I shall wait your letter
  very much. I wish you successful day. Your Julia.
  
  P.S. I shall write the following letter as soon as possible.
  If I have not answered some your questions I shall try to respond on them in the following letter.
  
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  Subject: For you
   Date: Sat, 19 Nov 2005 5:52:57 AM EST
   From: Julia
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  I am very glad that you do not forget me!!!
  Now I have gone to tell not for a long time to you that I think of you, but unfortunately I now
  have not enough time to answer all your questions and to write to you longer letter. As soon as
  next time I shall leave on a line all I shall tell.
  I ask you that you have sent me of more photo.
  I shall be glad them to see. It is very pleasant for me to see you, you are very beautiful.
  I to send you pictures of the childhood. I hope that you love it.
  Julia.
  
  
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   Date: Mon, 21 Nov 2005 4:23:15 AM EST
   From: Julia
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  hi my dear friend ,
  Today mum has made fried eggs and a glass of coffee for breakfast for me.
  Today I am not in good mood. Something like melancholy.
  I lack love and caress of loving man very much.
  I feel loneliness and that is why i am very sad.
  I try to change something in my life, but it turns nothing out for me.
  Because of my unsuccessful private life I have a depression every day.
  I want to love and to be loved.
  I want somebody who love me very much has embraced me and has kissed me.
  I am so sad now. Simply it is very sad for me just now.
  When you know that nobody waits for you and to live begins very difficultly.
  The blue sky turns to gloomy clouds, singing of birds irritates you, cheerful faces of people
  cause something like envy.
  Why not I? Why not, why am I not smiling and have fun now?
  Only your letters force me to smile. I feel support in your letters.
  I can tell you all that I can not tell others.
  I have not got used to show the emotions.
  I tell you about my asdness and it become easier for me. As though you take a part of my bad
  mood and pull out it from my soul.
  It becomes easier. Thank you that you exist.
  I got used to you very much. It frightens me a little.
  It seems to me that you are very good and decent man.
  I do not understand why women of your country do not see what a good man you are.
  They are silly women. They do not see that they lose.
  I think that i am lucky that I have got acquainted with you.
  I think that you would be very good husband and father.
  The only thing i regret about very much that I have not got acquainted with you earlier.
  I did not know that through the Internet it is possible to get acquainted with men.
  And I did not know that in the Internet there are such good men as you are.
  My dear honey unfortunately I SHOULD GO. I finish the letter.
  My dear friend I shall be very glad to see your letter.
  Please write to me.
  Your letters give me additional energy which helps me to live.
  I wish you successful day and that at you all was good today and always.
  I shall wait your letter,
  Your Julia.
  
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   Date: Tue, 22 Nov 2005 12:55:21 AM EST
   From: Julia
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  Hi my dear,
  It is very pleasant for me, that we with you continue our dialogue.
  It seems to me, that I know you as myself.
  My dear excuse, but I have many questions:
  I believe this part on marriage; do you?
  The common faith of spouses who are members of the body of Christ is an essential condition for
  truly Christian and church marriage.
  It is only the family that has one faith that can become «the church in the house» (Rom. 16:5;
  Phil. 1:2), in which husband and wife together with their children grow in spiritual perfection
  and knowledge of God.
  The lack of like-mindedness presents a serious threat to the integrity of a matrimonial union.
  That is why the Church considers it her duty to urge the faithful to marry «only in the Lord» (1
  Cor. 7:39), that to marry only those who share their Christian convictions.
  
  do you believe this? I do.
  
  While appreciating the social role of women and welcoming their political, cultural and social
  equality with men, the Church opposes the tendency to diminish the role of woman as wife and
  mother. The fundamental equality of the sexes does not annihilate the natural distinction
  between them, nor does it imply the identity of their callings in family and society. In
  particular, the Church cannot misconstrue the words of St. Paul about the special responsibility
  of husband who is called to be «the head of the wife» who loves her as Christ loves His Church,
  and about the calling of the wife to obey the husband as the Church obeys Christ (Eph. 5:22-23;
  Col. 3:18). These words are not of course about the despotism of husband or the slavery of wife,
  but about supremacy in responsibility, care and love. It should not be forgotten either that all
  Christians are called to «submit themselves to one another in the fear of God» (Eph. 5:21).
  Therefore, «neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the
  Lord. For as the woman is of the man, even so is the man also by the woman; but all things of
  God» (1 Cor. 11:11-12). I believe this also.
  
  Tell me of your spirituality, in detail please. What does salvation mean to you?
  Why do you believe you are going to heaven? Do you read the Holy Bible, how often?
  How much do you pray? Would you read the Holy Bible with me every day?
  Would you pray with me?
  Excuse, that I ask there much. I understand your belief differ from Russian, but all the same
  at us the general bases of morals slightly.
  You do not think, that I am crazy about religion! No. Simply to me interestingly your attitude.
  Observance of these canons in our life is not necessary. It is simply ideal variant.
  In life all is much more difficult and ideal observance of these canons impossible. I simply
  speak, that I agree with these canons.
  If you not so the believing person do not hesitate of it to tell. It will not change my good
  relation to you.
  In the sacred bible interesting things which are written are simply necessary in life.
  There many the moral moments without which the mankind will sink in criminality and immorality.
  I earlier not so trusted in the god, but in due course understand, that the religion is
  necessary for mankind.
  Unimportantly what it is religion: Moslems or Christians or the Buddhism......,
  without religion the society may not exist.
  Us from the childhood teach precepts do not kill, do not steal, do not lie....
  And so on. If to this did not teach for us probably it would be very simple to take and that
  that to steal or kill! You so too think?
  Recollect the pagan. The pagan considers, that having killed persons or whom that still he
  receives blessing from the god or gods. I that that have taken a great interest.
  ok, Probably you already have got tired of mine a question.:-)
  
  My Mather to transfer you Hello!
  In the beginning she not so seriously concerned to you and to our correspondence, but now mum
  consider, that at you very serious intentions. Mum very much trust you and consider, that you
  will give me happiness!!!
  I should finish the letter. I think of you always. Remember it.
  like you, Yours Julia.
  
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  Date: Wed, 23 Nov 2005 4:08:51 AM EST
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  Hi my dear Sjoerd!!!!!! Lovely, and as your native people will concern to to
  that I shall arrive to you? sweet, I would not like to create for you
  any inconveniences. sweet, today I visited the agent travels. He has
  told, that their firm can prepare for me travel. It will require
  approximately about 2,5 weeks. They will be to prepare for me the
  passport and insurance, then they will be to order for me the visa.
  The agent has told, that behind the visa I owe to reach in Moscow in
  your embassy. He has told, that now uneasy to receive the visa of the
  tourist to you, but they can care of, that I could receive the visa
  without problems. Then, a little sweete will be required to reserve
  for me the ticket and to develop more convenient route of the plane. I
  have told them, that probably I shall conclude with them the contract
  for my travel, toon. Tomorrow I shall learn from them full details
  rather cost and necessary documents. Today I had small free sweete
  from my work also had not sweete in detail all to learn. So i shall
  talk to my mather to ask them, to help to me to pay this contract. I
  very much hope, mine lovely, that at us all will be good also we can
  be speed beside with each other. I very much frequently I think of it.
  I have various imaginations concerning us of a two. and you, mine
  favourite? Dear, I wanted to learn from you, if cost travels will be
  large, whether you can help me with some by part it? My mather cannot
  be named as the rich people, and I not wanted very strongly to worry
  their finance. I hope, that some money for our meeting will not be a
  problem for you. But if yours financial position now heavy, I shall
  try itself to find any the decision for this purpose. Please write me
  about your dreams. If we have met the first thing I shall make when I
  shall see you I shall embrace you and kiss you!!! I feel to you
  something unusual, unusual feeling. I have never had such feeling. I
  think of you every minute, I want to see you, I can not sleep, eat...
  In my head ideas only about you. My heart is broken off from idea that
  we are now not together!!!! It seems to me that you are the angel gone
  down with heavens and inhaling in me forces to life . You are as a
  spark which fired in my soul, fire of like!!! Without you I did not
  live, I existed. Earlier I did not have pleasure in life, I simply
  lived the life. You, when you have appeared,my life has changed!!! I
  began to think of that the god has given me hope fortunately!!! The
  god has given me chance to be happy and I am not going to miss this
  chance. I am grateful to destiny that we have got acquainted. my like
  you are my unique man!!! I do not understand why such good man is
  still lonely?!!! Women in your country are silly. They do not see
  invaluable riches of your kind soul. I am very lucky that I have got
  acquainted with you. I also shall thank people which have thought up
  this Internet. Due to this internet we have got acquainted with you. I
  do want to meet you. I will find out what is necessary for me for our
  meeting. My feelings and words in relation to you always were fair and
  sincere. I never told lies to you and I shall never tell lies to you.
  I absolutely trust you. I know that such a man as you are never will
  deceive a woman. I already present myself as I have arrived to you, at
  the airport I look around for you. When I shall see you I shall run up
  to you and I shall embrace you!!! It will be the happiest day in my
  life. My mum and my best girlfriends are very glad for us. They wish
  that our relations develope and nothing prevente us to be happy. I
  very much want to get acquainted and to make friends with your
  relatives and friends. I do not want to hide the feelings to you. I
  want all the world know how you are necessary for me. I very much
  regret that now between us thousand kilometers of water and a land.
  And our dialogue is limited only to letters. But I believe that the
  day will come when we shall meet. This fine day we shall talk about
  all!!! I every day learn the English language and that is why we will
  not have problems in dialogue. Therefore do not worry we shall
  understand each other very well. Unfortunately I should finish the
  letter. If you do not want to be with me and to love me then be to me
  the friend. I hope I have not frightened you this letter. Simply I
  have written today that that I feel. Probably it shocks you a little.
  Probably my words unexpected for you. But accept these words as a a
  reality also think I am necessary for you as loving woman or not. I
  with impatience wait news from you. I wish you all the most good and
  successful day to you.
  
  Your Julia.
  p.s.Not be shocked, think and tell me that that you think.
  If you do not want to have me as loving the woman we can meet as friends.
  
  Reported by: Sjoerd
  
  



# Date: 2005-11-07