# Seen at: She emailed me personally after looking at my match.com profile
# Dangerous:
28%
# Details: Money for travel to the US and guilt to make me pay for the travel. This is the last letter I got:
I have got my passport. It is nice. :-) Don't laugh at me.
This is my first american document. And this is my way to my future. I
want to show it to you because you are the part of my future life too.
I want you to understand me right way. You are the only man I know in
the US. And I want to meet you as soon as I come.
I havn't written you for a while. I am sorry. I know I had to think
about you and just write you a short note earlier. I had a problem I
must solve before I write you anything. I know you worry for me.
As you see from the subject of my letter things doesn't smile at me. I
am sad and confused. I don't want to tell it to you. I know you want
to meet me. But I will be unable to come to the US by my own. I need a
sponsor to pay my travel.
Brent I want to describe the situation in detail.
In my last letter I told you I would have a talking with Violetta about
funding my travel by trade union. I met her and she said that our trade
union will not pay my travel. I asked why and how it may be? They
carry out this exchange program without funding it? She said it is not
right. Our government arranges traveling papers, visas, contract with
American government. They also pay salary and provide place for living
for american doctors coming to work in Russia. Travel expenses must be
covered from local hospital budget or our trade union. My hospital
refused to pay travelling and trade union can't pay for it too because
Moscow didn't send money. Violetta said it is because of the
non-coordination of our government.
I asked her what can I do? She said I can pay my travel by my own or
find a sponsor. I must pay only my travel to the USA. When I get there
I will be paid by american government.
Well, I asked her how much I must pay. When she said the sum I was
really confused. It is $950 USD. I knew I didn't have such sum and I
even can't borrow it from someone here. Violetta was very sorry for
me. She said such things happen often. The government conduct some
program and doesn't fund it.
Violetta also said the department changed the date of the flight. She
was called from Moscow and told the flight would be on June 7. The
changes were caused by poor financing and the department gave
additional some days. So I've got more time to find money.
After the talking I went to bank trying to get a loan. But when they
leant I was coming to the USA they refused to me. I talked to my
friends trying to find money but I knew they didn't have such sum.
This is my salary for 5 months. I tryed to ask for sponsorship in some
commercial companies but they don't want to deal with me without any
profit.
Violetta said I need to find a private sponsor and I thought about you.
Brent I didn't want to ask you for any help. I wanted to do
everything by my own. But I don't have any other options.
I must be in Saint-Petersburg with money by this time. I will fly to
New York if I have money and I won't fly in other cases. I have not
enough time to find money here and I want to ask you to bemy sponsor.
Brent I understand everything you may think about me. I hate asking
people for money and I always try to do everything by my own. But now
I really need your financial assistance. I estimated everything. I
will reimburse you this sum in one month. I also can pay you extra
money back. I will work in your state for sure. I don't know where yet
but I'll try to be as close as possible. I will learn the hospital in
New York city and I'll call you from there. I will earn at least $3000
a month and I will have a place to live. You see I will be able to
return you the money.
Brent you are the only man I know in the USA. I don't want to mix
our relationship and money. But I don't have anyone else to ask for
this help. I know if things even will not work out between us we will
remain good friends.
I don't want to lie you and say that I love you. I can't say it to a
man I have never met. But you must know that I have the warmest
feelings for you and I want to develop them. You know what this travel
means for me. It is my only chance to come to America and start new
life. It also maybe new life start for you... or for us. I am honest
woman and I honestly tell you that I will never hurt you or cheat you.
I will be there for ten months. This is more than enough to make a
decision about us.
Brent I have already told you about my plans for future. I want to
come to the USA, earn some money to start my own business and find
good man to love each other and enjoy our life together. I think I
have already found this man... Smile. YOU. When I heard from Violetta
that my future ruined I was so stressed and confused. I don't want to
give it up. I still have my hope. You are the only man who can help me.
Brent, be my sponsor! Help me to overcome it, please.
I will wait for your answer with all my hope.
Yours truly.
Polina
# Date: 2006-06-06
I have sent no money to her or for her. I was lucky.